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You are 1 millionth of this final dot:
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Even if you have a good memory, everyone you’ve ever heard of is probably still only a fraction of dots-worth.
How many people hate you? How many love you? How many have any awareness of you whatsoever?
If the world population stabilises at 11 billion (as the UN predicts) and the human species lasts for 1 million years (as is apparently typical of mammals), there will go on to be 100 trillion humans in the future.
So, if the entire above section of dots is represented by a single large dot, this is how many humans will go on to exist:
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So.
Don’t do or say or believe things because you want to be liked, or disliked, or because of anything to do with people’s reactions to you.
Believe things because they are true.
Say things because they are helpful.
Do things because they follow from the things that are true.
And try to restrict the amount of time spent dealing with people who obfuscate.